Love and Failure of Courtship


Love is about caring a person. And for the record, it has ups and downs that we, the people, especially the men and we always encounter that in our stages in life.

As we all know, people, love is consist of three kinds:

Love that focuses on your family, especially on your parents;

Love that focuses on friends, especially closest friends; And;

Love that focuses on seeking lifetime partner in life, either woman or man.

At this point in juncture, let me discuss the third one as it entails sometimes, difficulties, especially in courtship only this afternoon today, with emphasis on women. So, this blog is dedicated to all men.

All right, in finding a lifetime partner in life, men should, within their capacities do their best in courting a woman that they want to be their such kind of partner until their death.

Of course, you need to introduce himself to her in a manner that is cordial.

And then, you will seek friendship with her.

Third, after so many years, you will begin to court her. But be careful in doing so, because a woman may refuse if you agitated in courting her. It will take time, even a shorter time to convince her to court her.

But courtship, however, can be either successful or failure.

Let me discuss this one by one to be focused, or in simple terms, just for focus.

First, if successful, she can be your girlfriend and may I remind you that relationship has sometimes ups and downs but in the end, you and her will overcome that and will stay happily forever and will marry her and then, you will accomplish your goal to conquer her for lifetime partnership!

Second, if failed, you will back to square one, many times, or you will accept that you and her will be only friends. As of this point, it will take some other time, to court her all over again especially if you will get into a conflict with her, or if she get irritated at you. And, you will encounter many challenges on this one. I assure you, it will happen.

In my case, the second thing happened to me so many times. So many times, because I have lapses in life in terms of courting a woman. I don't know the extent why I was rejected by the women I tried to court especially in my high school or college life. The most painful of it is that some of them have a conflict with me that is running until today, to a no point of reconciliation.

I am sure many other men are experiencing what I have experienced and if that is so, I commiserate with them. I really commiserate with them. I pray to God that they will overcome such experience.

Pardon if I share my own experience in the second thing because as an notice to other men not to suffer it and to serve as a lesson for them in terms of courting a women so that they can learn from it to be successful in courting such women. If the men learns such experience, they will easily get the women of their lives.

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